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On 9th November 2002, St Joseph's Home & Hospice held a memorial service for its deceased residents after a time interval of about four years.  A memorial service is a precious and sacred moment for the loved ones of the deceased, a time to celebrate the rich memories of the lives of those they had shared with.

The families of the deceased residents were asked to bring a photograph of their loved ones who had died and to write a message to him/her, both of which would be displayed on the day of the service.  Excerpts, written in gratitude and in loving memory include the following:

Dear Sharon,

You have fought a fought a good fight.  You have finished the race.  Jesus loves you.  And you are with Him now.  Amen.

From your brothers, sisters and family, love always.

 
To our dearest Mum,

Your legacy of love lives on in your sons, daughters-in-laws and in your grandchildren. We know that even now you're still looking out for us.

Love,
Sydney, Peter and Paul.

 
Dearest grandpa Wilson,

Today we still think of you and remember you and the many good times we share.  You must be happy in heaven with grandma and great grandma.

Love,
your three grandchildren.

In his homily during the celebration of the Eucharist, Father Charles Sim, SJ, spoke positively on Christians emerging as resurrected and joyful.  Reverend Chau Ter, a Buddhist nun spoke on the Buddhist perspective towards pain, suffering and death.  How we approach death will be according to the life we had lived.

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The Christian perspective of water symbolizes new life, everlasting life in God.  A  representative from each family was invited to place a lighted candle in basins of water at the front of the altar.  It was a moving moment as the name of the deceased was called and a lighted candle was brought forward in memory of him/her.

Family members of the deceased expressed their gratitude for such a service where they could celebrate the memory of their loved ones.

Sr Margaret Goh