2008  Dorothy Day Award
Steve Dickhout  

 

 

 

“No one is forgotten”………


A week or so ago, on a Thursday, a resident of Unity Acres died 
unexpectedly in his room. A man, who may have had no access to 
health care or decent nutrition during his life on the street, dies 
un expectantly. With no family ties, Steve and the volunteers at 
Unity Acres are his only family. A decent burial is held and he is 
laid to rest at the cemetery on the grounds of Unity Acres. As Steve 
explains, “No one is forgotten. His grave is visited by folks at 
Unity Acres for years to come”. Dignified, respectful acts of 
mercy…. This is the calling of Steve Dickhout, executive director of 
Unity Acres.

Steve was drawn to the Catholic workers movement as a young graduate student in Toronto. After reading several of Dorothy Day’s books ( Loaves and Fishes, The Long Loneliness) , Steve was introduced to the Catholic workers movement in Toronto. When his father passed,  Steve moved to New York and sought out a community. When he called  Unity Acres, he was told:” we have two old ladies and a sick priest,  we do not have time for visitors, but come up and we will put you to  work”. Well, Steve came up and moved in! His journey began.

A small staff serves the needs of about 125 men living at Unity 
Acres. They come to this place via word of mouth or referrals from 
Catholic Charities, Jail Ministry, Parish priests, etc. The men 
follow a simple set of rules: no alcohol, drugs, or fighting. They 
are to keep the peace and contribute in some role to benefit the 
community. Some come with a set of skills, others do not.  Unity 
Acres gives back to them dignity, a sense of belonging, and 
discipline. Steve has learned much from the residents and the 
volunteers.

I asked Steve to tell me just one story about a resident who was 
helped by the work Steve does. It goes like this…. This man was 
living on his sister’s porch and it was wintertime. Peg McCarthy 
found him and brought him up to Unity Acres. After he was here for 
some time, I decided to hire him to supervise medications. He did 
this for 2-3 years and then moved on. He now lives in an apartment, 
has a job, a car, attends a church and stays in touch. Steve makes an 
effort to stay in touch in many ways. Some residents with declining 
health are referred to local nursing homes. Steve indicates they try 
to refer to one facility so that Steve and others can visit on a 
regular basis… No one is forgotten.

As we celebrate our annual Dorothy Day Award dinner on May 1st at St  Andrews parish, we look for an individual whose life works mirror is  some way the life of Dorothy Day, also one who communicates a message  of hope for those marginalized in our society and one who, 
individually, portrays true compassion and humility.  We could not 
have found a more appropriate match than in the life of Steve Dickhout.

It is very appropriate as we at St Andrews embark on our own journey  of uncertainty that we pause to reflect and learn from others like  Steve the true meaning of acts of mercy no matter where we are…  “No One is Forgotten”.


By Eileen M Clinton
St Andrews Parish